How to know if he/she is your true love or not.

Getting a Guy or Girl can be simple, but finding the right match who is in it for the long haul can be the real problem. If you’re having trouble finding a Partner who’s ready to commit that can be difficult, but before you give up on finding a Man or a Woman who is in it for the long haul, learn how to find a long-term Partner and what to do once you’ve found Him or Her. First of all you need to know that not all Men and Women are interested in Cheating (Playing) around, their are many out there who really do want to commit and have a real one on one Relationship, some of us are in it for the long haul. The way we find our Mate or Partner is to keep a positive attitude and be open minded. You have to know what you want and what your looking for and go for because we all deserve to be Happy, it's your right so KNOW YOUR WORTH. No one can see what the Future holds for our Relationship but set your Expectations High right from the start, don't settle for anything or just anyone go for someone who your Compatible with. There's no real way of knowing if you and someone are the match made in Heaven but try your best to look for certain Charateristics like if you both want Kids, do you both enjoy some of the same Foods, are you both ready for Marriage now or at least someday soon, Are you both into partying or staying Home on a regular, Do you both enjoy same Movies and Music? These questions are important no matter how silly they might sound, Communicate be clear about what it is your looking for and stick to your belief let this person know that your not negotiating your Worth. Go with your feelings don't doubt yourself a lot of times we know something but we doubt ourselves by thinking that we can change the way someone is or we can make them Love us well that's not the case, Love has to come from within it's not something you can make happen and it doesn't come overnight it takes much time and a lot of patience. Once you think you found your Match see if they share your Vision of the both of you together do they have a Mindset that includes us not just me, when discussing Future plans do they include you in all of them? Be realistic if your with someone whether your a Man or Woman and their Life dreams and Goals don't include you then how can you say that it's a us or a we, People your Partner is going to involve you in all their Endeavers because you both should have each others back, He or She is your better half, your Backbone. Behind every Successful Man is a Strong Woman and behind every Successful Woman is a Strong Man so Stand on that and make it so if it's not already. Listen we all say we want a good Partner but once we have it we don't know what to do with it, and why do People change once you get together I will tell you why? No one is willing to continue to do all those great and wonderful things that they started off doing when we first met, we change once we get comfortable with each other. If and when you're in it for the long haul you need to keep putting in time, the work doesn't stop because your in love now you need to keep the Laughter, the Joy, the Jokes, The going out on dates with each other of course, going out to Dinner on a regular, to the Movies, stay Intimate and that doesn't mean just making Love it means have Intimacy in your Relationship. Be Romantic, have Candle light Dinners, surprise your Partner with little things like have there Bath water ready when they get in or have a Picnic in the House yes in the House with a blanket on the floor with treats you both enjoy. People keep the Passion that Spark that you had before you will always need it to survive and keep a great Relationship going Strong, be willing to maintain what you did to get each other to fall head over heels, and don't think that just having Sexual Intercourse will help because it's much more involved in keeping a Relationship working properly. Stay Committed, Communicate not just about your bad day but also about your good day, disagree to agree without turning it into an Argument, Nurture each other Pampering each other is always good, Ladies Massage him & ect. Men Lotion her body down & ect. Stop Nagging at one another over the pettiest little things o'k he drop the Milk Clean it up She forgot your Beer ok go get it, these are little things that don't need a big argument over, it's simple we all make mistakes and forget things no one is Perfect. Constant arguments is what breaks up Homes and lead to Divorce that puts a lot of Stress and Pressure on your Relationship, that sucks when all you have to do is talk it out and see how you both can make it better if you believe it's worth working on then do your best to work it out. Some whether run the other way then stick it out all because there frustrated, well that's Life for you no one said it would be easy, but if you work on this one you don't have to worry about started over for the 5th or 6th time. Put effort in to your Relationship Ladies please your Man in anyway possible to keep him Happy and Men the same goes for you, be understanding and cut that Football or Basketball game off sometime. Everyone keep your Family and Friends out of your Relationship let's be honest they can put a Strain on it, everyone has something negative to say about your love life but can't fix there own so politely ask them to mind there business and let them know you can handle it yourself, but remember here's the kicker everyone if you tell your business to someone your simply opening up the door for them to come in.